Are you wondering why the man you desire - the one you’ve been dreaming of - still hasn’t found his way to you? You’ve likely asked yourself - where is he? and why hasn’t he shown up yet? If you’re looking for dating tips for women over 40, you’re in the right place.
Let’s talk about why waiting around for him might not be working and what you can do to change that.
Waiting Isn’t a Strategy - Here’s What You Need to Do
If you’ve been waiting for Mr. Right to just appear, sis I’ve got some news for you - waiting isn’t the answer. Think about it - has waiting around ever helped you get what you want in your career or life? You’re an accomplished woman; you know that success doesn’t just happen. You’ve made things happen. Why should dating be any different?
To find the man you truly desire, it’s time to shift from waiting to taking real action.
The Biggest Myth: He’ll Find You When You Stop Looking
You’ve probably heard this one: “He’ll find you when you stop looking.” It sounds nice, right? But I’m here to tell you that it just doesn’t work. Sure, it’s great to focus on yourself, enjoy life, and do things that bring you joy—but expecting love to fall into your lap just because you’re not actively dating? That’s a stretch.
Instead of waiting for some magical moment, it’s about creating the conditions for love to flourish. You have to put yourself in situations where you can meet the kind of men you’re interested in.
If you’ve ever believed this myth, here’s a quick video where I explain why waiting just won’t cut it and what you can do instead!
Watch this video where I share my top dating tips for women over 40 who are ready to take control of their love life.
So, How Do You Take Action?
It’s simple. Build a dating strategy that’s aligned with your personal values and future life experiences. When you approach dating with intention, just like you approach the other areas of your life, you set yourself up for success. This isn’t about playing games or being someone you’re not. It’s about making smart choices, putting yourself out there, and being open to new possibilities.
These dating tips for women over 40 can help you shift your mindset and approach.
Not sure where to start? Don’t worry, I’ve got you. Take my Dating Strategy Quiz to find out what your ideal dating approach looks like - it only takes 3 minutes, and it’ll give you the clarity you need to start seeing results.
Stop Doing the Same Thing and Expecting Different Results
If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep getting the same results. Want something different? You have to do something different. Whether that means trying new activities, attending events outside your usual circle, or even just shifting your mindset - change is essential.
When you embrace new experiences, you open the door to meeting new people, including the man you’ve been searching for.
Here’s How You Can Start Right Now
To stop wondering why the right man hasn’t found you yet, you need to do three things:
1. Stop waiting and start taking intentional action.
2. Ignore the myth that he’ll find you if you stop looking - being proactive is key.
3. Create a dating strategy that fits your lifestyle, values, and future life experiences.
These dating tips for women over 40 will guide you toward the love you deserve.
Need help with building that strategy? Book a free Relationship Vision session with me, and let’s get you on the path to finding the love you desire. You’ve got nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
You’ve worked hard to create a life you love - now let’s make sure you find the partner who’s ready to share that life with you 💝.
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This is so good! We are often told the myth regarding sitting back and waiting for our man to magically appear and it's not going to happen that way. We must be part of the process and take action towards what we want!