The Alignment List™
For the Woman Who Knows What She Wants
Knowing what you want is only
half the equation
The other half is knowing how to evaluate whether the man sitting across from you is actually aligned with the life you want to build.
The Alignment List™ is a decision-making tool built on The Dating Reset Method™ that helps you evaluate a potential partner through natural conversation without turning the date into an interview.
The Alignment List™ isn’t another list of dating questions. It’s a tool that helps you gather the information you need to make better relationship decisions. One conversation at a time.
Inside you’ll find the tools to help you evaluate alignment before you become emotionally invested. Every section has a purpose - from identifying what matters most to you, to uncovering whether your conversations point toward genuine compatibility.
Use it intentionally. Come back to it. Let it change how you choose.
WHAT'S INSIDE:
Before the Date
Start every new connection with intention. These natural conversation openers help you begin gathering meaningful information from the very first interaction.
Values Clarity Worksheet
Know exactly what you’re looking for before you evaluate someone else. This is where your reset begins.
35 Alignment Questions
Thoughtfully designed questions across four value areas - Emotional, Practical, Lifestyle, and Relational - to help you recognize alignment through natural conversation.
Going Deeper
When early conversations point toward genuine alignment, these questions help you continue evaluating the relationship as it naturally develops.
Because choosing a life partner deserves more than chemistry and hope. It deserves a better way to evaluate alignment.